Were you yourself bullied, teased or harassed in school or in the neighbourhood in which you grew up?
In your relationship with your (current or most recent) wife / partner, how often would you say that you quarrelled?
Now I will read you some statements about your relationship with your current or most recent spouse, even if you are divorced or widowed: I wish my partner showed me more affection
Now I will read you some statements about your relationship with your current or most recent spouse, even if you are divorced or widowed: I frequently show affection to my spouse
How many of these days [that your spouse took off the last time you had a child] were paid by his employer?