Who [within your household] has the final say on spending money on large investments (such as: buying a car, or a house, furniture)
Who has the final say about decisions involving how your family spends money on large investments such as buying a car, a house or a household appliance?
Who [within your household] has the final say on whether your spouse spends time with his family, friends, or relatives?
Who in your household usually has the final say about decisions involving your children (their schooling, their activities)? Would you say yourself, your partner or both equally?