Who [within your household] has the final say on spending money on large investments (such as: buying a refrigerator, a car, or a house)
Who has the final say on spending money on large investments (such as: buying a refrigerator, a car, or a house)?
Who [within your household] has the final say on whether your spouse spends time with his family, friends, or relatives?
Who [within your household] has the final say on how you spend time with your family, friends, or relatives?