Typically, if a member of your family suddenly fell ill or had an accident, the neighbors would offer to help
When you were growing up, you were beaten, spanked, slapped, kicked or punched by your father so hard (or your mother’s partner) that it left a mark or bruise
When you were growing up, you were beaten, spanked, slapped, kicked or punched by your mother so hard that it left a mark or bruise
When you were growing up, there were times when your parents/guardians were too drunk or intoxicated by drugs to take care of you