Who has the last word or authority on the time that your partner spends with her family, friends, or relatives?
Who [within your household] has the final say on whether your spouse spends time with his family, friends, or relatives?
Who in your current or most recent relationship has the final say about spending money on food and clothing?
Who in your current or most recent relationship has the final say about the following issues: Spending money on food and clothing
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money? Food and clothing
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money on food and clothing?