Who in your household usually has the final say about decisions involving your children (their schooling, their activities)? Would you say yourself, your partner or both equally?
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say on how many children to have or the spacing of children?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about whether your husband/partner can work outside the home?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about whether your wife/girlfriend can work outside the home?
Who [within your household] has the final say on how you spend time with your family, friends, or relatives?