How many times have you ever done things to scare or intimidate your spouse on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?
How many times have you ever hurt people your spouse cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?
Has your spouse prohibited you from getting a job, going to work, trading or earning money in the last twelve months?
Has your spouse kept money from your earnings for personal use when he knew you were finding it hard to afford your personal expenses or needs for the household in the last twelve months?
How many times has your spouse ever prohibited you from getting a job, going to work, trading or earning money?