Who had the final word in your household about decisions involving you and your brothers and sisters (their schooling, their activities)?
Who had the final word about decisions involving how your family spends money on large investments such as buying a car, or a house, or a household appliance?
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money on large investments such as buying a car, or a house, or a household appliance?
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money on food and clothing?