At home, usually who has the final say in the decision on the possibility of you working outside the home?
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money on large investments such as buying a car, or a house, or a household appliance?
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend money on food and clothing?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about whether your wife/girlfriend can work outside the home?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about about what you do together or how you spend your time?