Who in your household usually has the final say about decisions involving your children (their schooling, their activities)? Would you say yourself, your partner or both equally?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about whether your husband/partner can work outside the home?
Who in your relationship usually has the final say about about what you do together or how you spend your time?
Who [within your household] has the final say on how you spend time with your family, friends, or relatives?
Who in your family or relationship usually has the final say in how you spend time with family, friends or relatives?