When you were growing up, your father/mother/guardian hit, whipped, slapped, kicked, or hit you so hard that it left a mark or bruise
When you were growing up, there were times when your father/mother/guardian was too drunk to take care of you
Before I reached 18, I was beaten at home with a belt or stick or whip or something else which was hard
Before you reached 18…one or both of your parents were too drunk or high on drugs to take care of you