Have you hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting him, or damaged things of importance to him?
How many times has your spouse ever hurt people you care about as a way of hurting you, or damaged things of importance to you?
How often has a male partner ever humiliated you, threatened, or would not let you leave the house when you wanted?
Have you ever been scared or intimidated by a partner on purpose for example by the way he looks at you, by yelling and smashing things?
How many times has your spouse ever done things to scare or intimidate you on purpose for example by the way he looked at you, or by yelling and smashing things?
Have you threated to hurt any of the children (yours or your partner’s) to get any of your partners to do what you wanted or to punish them in the last year?