Have you done any of these things [involving emotional intimate partner violence] in the past 12 months?

Have you forbidden any of your partners to have contact with family members or friends in the last year?

Have you been belittled or humiliated by a partner in front of other people?

Have you insulted or belittled your spouse in the last twelve months?

Have you threatened to hurt your spouse in the last twelve months?

Have you insulted your spouse or deliberately made her feel bad about herself in the last twelve months?

Have you insulted any of your partners or spoken to them using vulgar or aggressive language in the last year?

Have you done things to scare or intimidate any of your partners on purpose, eg look at them a certain way or yell and break things in the last year?

Have you done things to scare or intimidate your spouse on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things in the last twelve months?

Have you hurt people your spouse cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her in the last twelve months?