Have you ever done things to scare or intimidate any of your partners on purpose, eg look at them a certain way or yell and break things?
Have you ever done things to scare or intimidate a partner on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?
How many times have you ever hurt people your spouse cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?
How many times have you ever done things to scare or intimidate your spouse on purpose for example by the way you looked at her, by yelling and smashing things?