I have more to say than she does about important decisions that affect us

Now I will read you some statements about your relationship with your current or most recent wife or partner: I like to let her know she isn’t the only partner I could have

Before I reached 18, I saw or heard my mother being beaten by her husband or boyfriend

Before I reached 18, I had sex with someone because I was threatened, frightened or forced

Before I reached 18, someone touched my buttocks or genitals or made me touch them when I did not want to

I have asked you some easy and some difficult questions How has talking about these things made you feel?

How many times have you used drugs in the last 12 months?

In the past year have you ever failed to do what was normally expected from you because of drinking?

In the past year have you ever had a feeling of guilt or remorse after drinking?

How often do you have six or more drinks on one occasion?