How often have you refused to speak with your partner for some time (a few hours, a day or for more than a day), refused to eat the food they have cooked or slept in a different room away from the bedroom you share?
Have you ever hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her? If yes, did this happen once, a few times or many times?
Have you hurt people your partner cares about as a way of hurting her, or damaged things of importance to her?