When you were growing up, your father/mother/guardian hit, whipped, slapped, kicked, or hit you so hard that it left a mark or bruise
When you were growing up, you were beaten, spanked, slapped, kicked or punched by your father so hard (or your mother’s partner) that it left a mark or bruise
When you were growing up, you were beaten, spanked, slapped, kicked or punched by your mother so hard that it left a mark or bruise